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The #1 NYE Resolution!

By Jenna Jamieson | December 31, 2017 | Comments 0 Comment

There are lots of resolutions to be made and goals to be set as we head into another New Years Eve. As you add a new diet to your list, new health and nutrition goals, weight loss, less sugar, and the countless other resolutions, I hope kindness is at the very top for each and every person. It’s what keeps the world going! It will give you more purpose, meaning, and happiness than any other goal on your list. I promise you this, and my book, Giving Back: Lessons from an adopted immigrant on why a happy life is about helping others will affirm why this is true.

As I wrap up 2017, I am thankful for the trip to the nation’s capitol that my husband and I just embarked on. While there, I was reminded once again why I find travel to be so therapeutic. The melting pot of people and cultures was lovely, but more than that, the ability to provide guidance and help to them was at the heart of the trip. My husband and I gave directions to several in DC (while we were ‘tourists’ ourselves it never fails that we get asked how to get somewhere, even when we were in Ireland!). We also helped someone off the ground who fell at one of the monuments. What was even sweeter is when my husband said, “I did the same thing earlier today” to make the young twenty-something feel better.

Lastly, as we traveled home we got behind a very slow person in the security line at the airport. It was a mother with a young child who didn’t put her stuff through the scanner. The security personnel instructed her to do so and we continued on our way. Later, I ended up sitting next to her on the plane. The little girl she had was absolutely a doll. I lipped to her “Hi” and in the most bubbly little voice she said “Hi” back. While the mother was between us, the little girl liked to observe me discreetly. I eventually lended a hand to the mother who was giving the little girl her lunch by throwing her trash away and providing extra napkins for a small spill that occurred. After all, it can be overwhelming and stressful when you are traveling alone with a small child. She said back to me, “Thank you so much.” It wasn’t more than a minute or two later when she looked at me again and said, “That was so kind of you” (after throwing her trash away). These are the resolutions I hope we are all making for 2018 – to be kind to one another, help one another, and give back to those around us. Cheers to much happiness and good health next year and LOTS OF KINDNESS!

While Christmas, New Year’s, and the holidays will soon be over until next year, kindness and giving back throughout the year should be resolutions for all.

~jj

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Wedding bells, now what can we sell?

By Jenna Jamieson | August 2, 2016 | Comments 0 Comment

I always knew I wanted a small wedding party that would be filled with simple decorations and centerpieces, but I didn’t quite realize how much a wedding would cost even if I wanted it to be simple and small.

It has come to light that wedding loans have become popular, and in some cases the only option for couples, as the cost of weddings has skyrocketed. So step aside, home loans, car loans, and student loans. You have another loan to compete with. The news has actually brought this to my attention more recently in these articles: Wedding Costs Skyrocket and Wedding Loans. Not only that, but I have come to realize how many people so freely share their opinions once I got engaged to my fiancé. People asked the first week if we had set a date as if fast-forwarding us through time. While planning a wedding is a fun adventure it can also be overwhelming. Everyone has an opinion on something, but sometimes you have to remember that you won’t be able to please everyone on your wedding day. The more I think about it the more those words ring true not only with weddings, but with life! While this blog post focuses on depicting the greed within the wedding industry, it by no means is meant to make anyone feel guilty about their own wedding, values, or choices.

The wedding industry has become one of the biggest industries filled with overpriced products and services that many people choose to buy. From the venue to the photography to the catering and wedding dress, a wedding can quickly turn into the equivalent of buying a car, putting a down payment on a house, or traveling the world.

As I plan my own wedding or choose to elope I am finding it even more difficult to understand and stomach the costs associated with a wedding. I live in small, rural America and even so it has been exceptionally difficult to find an affordable venue to host my special day. A special day that I hope emphasizes simplicity, love, and beautiful memories for my guests. The first venue I looked at was $2,500 and that was actually with a fifty percent discount since I am getting married in March, which is often considered an off-season month. I continued looking because this was higher than I wanted to spend. I went on to look at others that charged $1,800, $4,600, and $1,000.

While a wedding is a very special day and in my opinion should be celebrated, it is ultimately about two people falling in love. For me personally, it isn’t about a grandiose reception, being in the spotlight (because I don’t like that), or spending an exorbitant amount of money for a one day event that may last 4 to 6 hours. This is precisely what the wedding industry wants us to think and believe, and what they hope we will buy into (literally by forking out thousands upon thousands of dollars). That just isn’t who I am or what I stand for. Don’t get me wrong I love gazing upon beautiful wedding pictures of close friends, family, or even strangers – I enjoy their pretty flowers, and love seeing different color schemes, centerpieces, and wedding decor. I am most certainly not here to judge the weddings of others or how much someone else chooses to spend on their special day. Each person views and values a wedding differently.

However, I am finding it difficult to spend close to 10k or more on my own wedding, which is approximately what it costs for an average, normal ceremony and reception. It also means you must budget well and cut corners when possible. It concerns me mostly because there are so many people in the world that could use the money that are fighting to survive, charities doing phenomenal work all around the world, an endless number of places I would love to visit to learn about other cultures, including India to learn more about my own. Hence, I am finding it incredibly difficult to overindulge myself (even on my wedding day). How can I justify in my head spending so much on one day?

So am I eloping or throwing a small, non-traditional reception? Only time will tell, but one thing is certain, if I find 10k is the best I can do to throw a small, non-traditional reception then I will elope and cherish the love I am celebrating. That money can be used more productively based on my values and morals. That’s because I know myself well enough that I would look back and feel bothered that I spent 10k for a one day, 4 to 6 hour reception that was really about two people going on an adventure called life together. So if I host a reception you can guarantee it will be a very budgeted occasion that doesn’t overlook my values.

You just learned more about me than my website, Facebook page, or even meeting me in person may show. One thing is for sure, I am luckier than I can even begin to imagine because I am able to consider whether I want to host a reception or elope. It makes me more blessed than a lot of people in this world and for that I feel grateful for the life I get to live. My advice is to be wise about what you choose is best and enjoy the adventure.

Feel free to let me know how you feel about the wedding industry. How have you seen it change or evolve over the last decade, or since you got married?

~jj

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Quality over quantity…in life and in health!

By Jenna Jamieson | April 27, 2016 | Comments 1 comment

“Quality over quantity” fits my life mission and many of the goals I set for myself. When I workout I like to keep it in the back of my mind. I want quality over quantity. What does that mean to me? It means using the correct form for the exercises I perform and creating a workout that fits my lifestyle and body. It is for my sanity, strength, and a stress reliever at the end of the day. In other words, I would rather do fewer reps and sets during my workout than lots of reps and sets in the incorrect form. That can cause pains, strains, and injuries.

The same can be echoed for the career paths I have gone down. I have come to appreciate (and enjoy) having a job that is far more “quality over quantity”. That may not even make sense, but let me explain. I work in public education and I don’t get paid a lot, but the work I do and the students I touch are the reason I have come to like the work that I am doing (after having changed career paths several times prior). The quality or meaning it brings to my life far outweighs the quantity or money I am making.

Lastly, I love to travel. It is probably one of my favorite things to do and I wish I could do it more often. I love the experiences it gives me, the memories I create, and learning about the world. I like seeing other cultures, gaining new perspective, and more than anything the quality it adds to my life.

The meaning behind this post is to remember that in life it is far better for your health and happiness to appreciate life and people, not things. Take pleasure in the small things…the things that create memories, experiences, and teach you something about yourself and others. Make your life center around quality and experiences. You will be happier if you do! And, more than anything remember to appreciate your health and the aging process. After all, good health and aging is something that some never have the privilege of experiencing. As my grandma once said, “If you have good health you don’t realize how lucky you really are.”

~jj

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There’s an {exercise} app for that!

By Jenna Jamieson | October 16, 2015 | Comments 0 Comment

Each weekend my boyfriend and I go on some type of walk, jog, hike, or outdoor workout to get some steps in. At first, it started as taking the dog for a walk, but it quickly turned into a weekend routine. Now we go nearly every weekend. Our weekend walk or jog has evolved over time. We both have phone apps that track our steps which caused us to begin to pay attention to how many steps and how much distance we were covering for fun. It has now turned into a friendly competition whereby my boyfriend and I ask each other several times along the walk how many steps the other has done. Why you ask? We now compete against each other to see who has more steps. I usually win! 🙂 That’s mostly because I take smaller steps. Not intentionally though, I have shorter legs! He usually covers more distance then me, but who’s counting? We both are to see who can claim “winning” the exercise race. Of course, there is nothing to win other than saying you win distance or you win most number of steps.

So why am I telling you this story? Because using a pedometer or some type of fitness app that makes you accountable for what you are accomplishing each day is a great way to ensure you are moving your body and getting exercise. This is a great alternative to Fitbits and other fitness tools or devices that people often use for a short period because phones are always with us. Lastly, I would encourage you to put together a work team or social team that can help motivate you. I am positive my boyfriend and I would not get as much exercise during the weekend if it weren’t for the competition we have created with each other. It goes as far as when I get up or he gets up to do something we take our phones not to use them, but because we want to make sure the phone is registering every last step that might put us ahead of the other! While we exercise regularly during the week, it is important to also get some exercise throughout the weekend!

Another reason phone apps are great is because you can use them anywhere and anytime so there’s no excuse for no workout! You can do a quick workout in a hotel room if you are traveling for work or traveling for fun. You can grab your phone and download an app that has fitness and nutrition inspiration, has workouts that target specific areas of your body, or you can find an app that has group exercise routines that you can follow.

Now it’s time to go to your app store on your phone to find an app that will help you achieve your fitness, nutrition, and health goals! 🙂

~jj

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#AlwaysChooseKindness